Have you ever..
Felt happy with someone and realized that so much time has gone by between the both of you? My bf and I have been together for almost 2.5 years & I’m excited. He’ll finally be my longest relationship, (technically if you count the months we dated, he’d already be my longest). I never really thought I would be in a long term relationships again especially after high school. I pictured being tied down maybe after college or something but to be honest, my college experience has been the best. Not only is my bf my personal driver (lol) he’s my best friend. I know a lot of couples say that about their significant other but foreal, this dude is someone I can crack jokes with, put up with my attitude and still accept me for my weird ass self. After being in a relationship all three years of high school, I told my self staying single with be fun. Maybe if I had gone to a UC or moved away from home, I’d be single af hahah, but since I commute and everything + the fact that CSUN isn’t exactly a party school, having EJay around has been a blessing. We’ve managed to pull through six semester together. It’s crazy to think that breaking up has never crossed my mind. Okay, maybe like once or twice when our arguments seemed like hell x 1000 but I think all of the bickering and disagreeing we’ve done the past three years has only made us stronger. When people ask me how he and I are doing, I just tell them, “we’re chillin’” hahah because really we are. It’s nice having someone to experience things with like concerts, shows, and basically going everywhere around LA eating new things. I think the best part about my relationship with EJay is that we have another life other than just always hanging out. It might not seem like it with all our IG posts and tweets, but the fact that we both make time for other people like our friends makes me so happy. He does his own thing, and I do mine. He allows me to be independent but also helps me in my decisions. I really do enjoy his company and growing up with him every day has really been the best part of my college experience.